7 Tips for Beginning to Homeschool a Child With an Autism Spectrum Disorderby Valorie Delp | More from this Blogger 10 Oct 2006 06:31 PM Homeschooling for autistic children makes a lot of sense for a variety of reasons. It is not necessarily less stressful than sending your child to school. But for many families the stresses that come with home schooling their autistic children are welcome as parents see the needs of their children truly being met in a loving and compassionate way. At the request of a couple individuals I have begun compiling information from various sources about homeschooling with kids with autism spectrum disorders. 1. Deschooling Most experts seem to feel that the beginning of home schooling for a child with an ASD is to "deschool". The technical definition of this would be for your child to 'unlearn' all the negative socialization experiences he had had in school. Many home schooling veterans point to this as a time for you to observe your child and for your child to really explore areas that interest him. Learning must again become fun. 2. Keep a journal You might want to consider taking notes at this time. What helps your child focus? What are his favorite things and what is he doing when happiest? Where does he excel? 3. Contacts While deschooling, contact local organizations, and support groups. Try to make contact with other parents who understand both autism and home schooling. 4. Read books beyond autism! Many people have sited this an a very helpful and important step. A few favorites are: The 7 Kinds of Smart, and The Way They Learn 5. Ditch your preconceptions Try to approach the process with an open mind. Think about your end goal and then work backwards: What will get you to your end goal with your child? It is likely to look different than traditional schooling would be and that's just fine! 6. Determine where your child is on checklists and evaluations. Set a goal and then work towards that goal. On the other hand. . .ditch the checklist if it is too frustrating. In states where there is a lot of paperwork, you can document your child's progress towards the goal and why you stopped pursuing it. 7. Locate needed therapies and services for your child. There are a variety of resources available and with a little leg work at the library, I've heard of many parents providing needed therapy at home as appropriate. Remember that this is a journey. You are allowed to change course. You need to let your child show you how he'll learn best and chances are you'll see him soar! Related Articles: Why I Homeschool My Son with Asperger's Syndrome Homeschooling Special Needs Kids: Resources Learn more about Valorie Delp  Hello everybody! My name is Valorie and I am one busy lady! When I'm not writing or editing for families, I am busy trying to get my brood of 5 in line. Relevanthomeschooling tags User Comments  Megan Bayliss (3586) 10 Oct 2006 09:50 PMWhat can I say - thank you just isn't enough. Will you marry me Valorie?? I've just had a wonderful meeting with our son's school. We're going to try 3 days at school and 2 days natural learning at home. By the end of the school term (only 7 weeks away) we'll make a decision about whether to full time home school or not. I'm happy. He's happy. School's happy. Your point number 5 has been the biggest struggle for us...but, I have finally just let go. It is soooooooo freeing. Thank you for all of your support. Schooling a child with ASD doesn't have to be hard - you were right all along Valorie. TammyGlaser (18) 02 Oct 2007 04:26 PMValorie, after twelve years of homeschooling, I find 24/7 with less stressful than dealing with the school system! :-) Yes, it is a different kind of stress, but at least I can use my energy positively and have flexibility and control. I think your article is a great introduction in how to get started and I have more detailed information at my web page and blog: http://home.earthlink.net/~tammyglaser798/authome.html http://aut2bhomeincarolina.blogspot.com UrsulaAnne (5) 26 Mar 2008 11:06 PMWay to go Valorie! I've been homeschooling our son for 5 years. He was recently diagnosed, but you know, the stress level DOES go down when you're working with your own kids and their unique ways of learning. It isn't about fitting into the same shaped mold anymore. They get to be themselves and the focus is so much more positive and fun. By the way, the deschooling is right on. In our case, we didn't get a choice, he just refused to do it any other way. After about a year, things were much easier. Ursula www.LearningWithTy.wordpress.com Discuss this article
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